WARNING - PSEUDO-PERVERTED POST AHEAD....DO NOT READ IF YOU'RE EASILY OFFENDED!
We humans tend to be a mysterious lot. We usually tend to assume that clothes make the man (or woman).
For example, don a business suit, and walk into a shopping complex, and people will automatically assume that you're a successful businessman (or businesswoman, if you prefer).
And if you happen to be wearing the clothes of a VERY poor person, almost no one in society will EVER give you a second glance!
And yet, when the day has worn itself out, and we retire to our sanctuaries, most of us do one thing.
STRIP. Before stepping into the showers to bathe and refresh ourselves.
Now, before you do the same old routine for today, take a good look at yourself in the mirror (preferably a full-length one) TWICE:
1. Stand in front of the mirror while you're clothed in your usual attire, and give yourself an opinion on how you're feeling at that moment.
2. Then, strip yourself of your clothes, and stand in front of the mirror AGAIN. Give yourself an opinion on how you look THEN.
If you can still feel good about yourself in both situations, congratulations!
If NOT, then, as you look at your nude self, say, "I have all the endowments that God has given me, both in body and spirit. I will NOT allow myself to be belittled by others, for they are the SAME as me. I WILL succeed in Life, no matter how many people put me down!"
I believe that you might feel a whole lot better once you do.
Also, if there's something that you don't like about yourself, again, look at yourself, and say, "I WILL make an attempt to CHANGE, to become a BETTER person!"
Repeat that every time you head off to the showers.
Insya-Allah (God willing), this will help you IMMENSELY.
Now, let's see what THIS causes...^_^;;